Following the French Vogue Black Face layout and the Australian Black Face performance on the "Hey Hey Its Saturday" reunion  its time to ask our selves whats really going on. Is it fashionable to play with the things that demeaned a people? does it stop being Racist because you think its funny?

I find myself having the "race" dialogue a lot. I have it with friends and with complete strangers and the conclusion of said conversations varied... (continue reading)

It's hard for me to believe that all women are as irrational as we are depicted in music, movies and on television. Is that the reality? Are we really the crow bar wielding, clothing burning, vindictive lunatics we are made out to be? My usual conclusion to these things is simply no. Its just a stereotype developed to "keep women down". Something that only the most ignorant in society believe is the way they should act. I usually believe these stereotypes are unfounded... that there... (continue reading)

Over the past 2 years the way we deal with race, sex and politics has been pushed to the forefront of American Society. I've commented quite a bit on how we deal with each other as far as race goes and our understanding of who we are.

This year I took 4 classes that deal with race and ethnicity and how some of us have the complexes that we have. (and I'm sure you're waiting for me to get to my point... its coming be patient.. i almost always have a thesis. this is just my pre-thesis... (continue reading)

Hi Kids!!!!!

long time no talk!! or watever u say in events of me not getting online for long periods of time. lol! I have to admit I have been going through it lately.. all kinds of sick... so since i haven't been shy about telling you all my business why start now. lol!!!

                  So!! from July until about 2 weeks ago I have been on like the endless period. 3 solid moths of... (continue reading)

 It's been 2 and a half months since "Tony" and I broke up and I've know "Jon" for a little over a month. And I've just been looking back on everything that happened in May and June and I'm questioning evrything I thought I knew.

   For those who dont know the story Tony and I had the most horrible break up and the aftermath was something i definitely omitted for the purposes of my privacy ( gasp) and also because it was a very hard and personal time... (continue reading)

    Now-a-days finding a Good partner is difficult. it seems that the guys that make themselves available aren't worth any woman's time and the good ones are either taken or only want to be friends (for fear of heart break).

     I've dated a$$hole after a$$hole after A$$HOLE. There were abusive a$$holes, Controlling a$$holes, cheating a$$holes, drug dealing a$$holes, criminal a$$holes, married a$$holes, good for nothing ghetto a$$holes. I've seen... (continue reading)