Hello y Bienvenidos a mi pagina. Take a seat, toma un chin de cafe, y relajate mi amor. Let's not be pretentious and formal because we are all here to have a good time and perhaps make a friend along the way. I'm not about to give you a long list of things about me because they would be irrelevant if you have malintentions so if you really want to know who am I, let's do it the old-fashioned way by........ASKING QUESTIONS! LOL
* My greatest accomplishment , which happened 10/20/2001 (even the date is completely balanced), was the birth of my wonderful daughter, Yemaya. She humbled me, reinvented me, taught me how to love unselfishly, and hired me for the most rewarding job I've ever had all at the same time!
*There are mancy facets to me. My culture and heritage are EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO ME........and let's face it, who else is going to talk about the forgotten people of latinos - THE AFRICAN LATINOS! Yeah we are here and we exist so a mi gente negra, please stop saying how your great great great great great great great abuelo Juan Carlos Antonio Fernando Rodriguez Leon Matas de Caraballo was from Espana! Aceptanse([por el amor de Dios).....You have flavor- Hell i know i do! I am not taking anything away from our fairer- skinned counterparts but their beauty is appreciated and recognized far more than ours is! Embrace your nappy hair, oops my bad, pelo malo, and stop sporting jheri curls and kits and whatever the hell else you put in your hair to make it look like "pelo bueno". You are who you are and I love you in all of you regal, sexy, nappyhead, dark-skinned glory! We are a beautiful people and the sooner we love us-the better off we will be! NOW ENOUGH OF MY SERMON!
*I am a traditionalist and yes you can be educated and be both! Yeah I can make you a mean pot of congri, carne con papas, and ensalada de aguacate, clean the house, take care of the kids, quote you Sonia Sanchez and discuss the Socioeconomic history of Cuba pre and post-Castro, and give you a mean lap dance and BJ (yeah I said it- We are adults. Get over yourself)....lol Ladies, let's jump off the "Independent Woman" bandwagon please. Con esa mierda, we are destroying our families. Saying you don't need a man is ridiculous. That's why Lil Hector is a damn mess now......The only thing you can show your son is what kind of woman he should be with or not be with, if you are trifling-NOT HOW TO BE A MAN. He needs a positive male figure around whether it's abuelo, tio, o your good homie Jose. You are his mother-NOT MAMI Y PAPI! Teach your son that he should be responsible and protective over his family and his woman- HIS FATHER SHOULD HAVE DONE THAT FOR YOU AND I'M SORRY IF HE DIDN'T BUT DON'T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE WITH YOUR SON. He is not YOUR lil man- that would have been his father. He is your son not your novio o marido. The feminist movement AFTER slavery is what destroyed our families. A real independent woman handles her business when it comes to her family and knows when to step aside and let a man do HIS job. Which takes me into my next segue...........
*Now it's time to turn this discussion to my brothers. What the hell happened to you? Why does it seem you all go for the the "pretty" chickenhead vs. "the cute" sensible, smart woman? That seems to be the trend in dating now- Dudes want the chick that has a box of rocks for brains! lol ARE THESE REALLY THE WOMEN YOU WANT TO HAVE YOUR BABIES WITH? WOW! These broads are useless- They can't cook, hold a half way intelligent conversation, clean, be supportive- hell they barely wanna do it for fear of breaking a nail or sweating out their blow out! That's a joke and if you like these types of women-YOU ARE A JOKE, TAMBIEN! ..........AND - When did it become ok to not give a damn about your family? Don't give me the "I'm a man speech!", when you are taking the proverbial sh\it on your woman and your kids! You are supposed to protect us and take care of us (Not those needy broads that think they don't have to work or their sh\it doesn't stink) but the strong mamis that held you down when your boss got on your da\mn nerves or maybe you aren't the talkative or sensitive type but when you needed her to hold you and listen or tell you it was ok (with or without words) by caressing your face, she did just that without taking your masculinity away, or the sister that sent you a lil something when you were in college and you didn't have a dime. You are the first man your daughter will ever be in love with and the only man that SHOULD be teaching her what kind of man she should be with as well as showing her how a man should treat a woman- this would be expressly done through the relationship with her mother (even if you think she is a bi\tch). This is for the greater good, papito. Just sending money DOES NOT make you a great dad! It is your responsilbility as a man to care of your seeds. You don't get a medal or praise for buying Lil Sean some Jordans and an Avirex jacket. Take him to the park or the library.Teach your daughter that she should EXPECT her man to uplift her. That is a right not a privilege! My own father me dijo, "You better not f with a ni\gga that does not do what I do OR more for you!" That's a direct quote by the way! lol I grew up with both of my parents which nowadays is a rarity. Teach your sons that it's ok to show vulnerability to a woman that loves him. We need to see that sometimes- we really do! lol I'm not talking about a punk, though! lmao If you love your woman and she is cool beans, fu\ck what your boys say! If they are MEN and truly your boys, they will want you to hook them up with a woman just like her! lol
Real talk! It is time that we as a people Black and Brown had an open and honest dialogue about the way we treat one another! You are your brothers keeper- dammit! *Damn I have said alot! Well that's my time and thank you for coming out- God Bless you, Good night! Paz, K. Feel free to drop a note!
Representin` Detroit to Brooklyn!!
Yo soy La Hija De Yemaya so don`t cross me or you will feel the wrath!! Mafeferun, Yemaya! Ache!! O MIO YEMAYA O MIO
