She likes to think that she is independent and can make her own decisions and live by them. She has no need for any one to help her. So independent in fact that she has no need for anything. (Wait, she is feeling lonely and in desperate need of some male attention, and maybe the biological clock is ticking so hard that all can hear for miles around...) However, let some guy make googly eyes and give her some attention and she loses all sense of self respect. No longer making her own choices or decisions. Giving up all of her dignity and friends. Females, because we are jealous or take up too much of her time and energy away from him. Males, because they all want to get in her pants according to her new beau. May I remind you that he has been in the picture for all of ... its been two months since she has meet the love of her life again... Damn it feels like its only been 30 seconds and yet the ties and bridges that have been burned within that time have been scorched and broken, Forever!!! Will they heal? I think not at the moment, or any time soon.
Be ware she may be your sister, your friend, your cousin or your neighbor or wait it might be you...
What do you do about it if you know someone like this? Can things be fixed, or return to the way they were? Because we can all see it but unfortunately they can not see it for themselves. What to do? Let it be. They will realize at some point because we all know that she will eventually ...hopefully see him for what he is. An insecure bitter man. Who was damaged and never learned to help himself get over his loss and heal to be the man he could truly be. Maybe she to was hurt, and never really learned the value of a real Independant woman she could truly be....
What then? Can you still be there for your friend, sister, cousin, neighbor? Normally, I would not have to even think about it and say yes. However, burn me once shame on you, Burn me twice shame on me. So this time I must say that honestly I don't know ....
