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THROUGHOUT MY YEARS OF LIFE I HAVE SEEN THE GOOD AND BAD AND THE UGLY OF LOVE OR SO CALLED LOVE.FROM ALL WALKS OF LIFE THE WORD LOVE HAS BEEN USED IN MANY DIFFERENT FORMATS. YOU HEAR PEOLPE SAY WHAT THEY WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP ,WHAT A WOMAN WANTS IN A MAN,WHAT A MAN WANTS IN A WOMAN AND SO FORTH. I REALIZE THE VALUE OF LOVE DOES NOT HAVE THE SAME MEANING TO ALOT OF PEOPLE,AND THE FACT THAT MOST TRUELY DONT UNDERSTAND THE TRUE CONCEPT OF THE WORD LOVE. MOST DONT EVEN REALIZE THAT IT TAKES SEVERAL OTHER WORDS TO EVEN COME UP WITH THE WORD LOVE. MOST OF US PRETTY MUCH KNOW ABOUT EVOLUTION,ABOUT HOW THINGS ARE MADE AND CREATED.THE SAME PRINCIPLES APPLY TO LOVE.YOU HAVE TO HAVE A FOUNDATION TO STAND ON BEFORE YOU CAN BUILD UP.SO MANY PEOPL FROM DAY TO DAY THINK THEY KNOW WHAT LOVE REALLY MEANS,WHEN ALL THE WHILE THEY ARE IN LUST ,BUT CALL IT LOVE....NOT!!!!!

SOME LOOK FOR FINACIAL GAIN,SOME LOOK FOR COMPANIONSHIP,OTHERS LOOK FOR MATERIALS,THEN YOU GOT THOSE WHO JUST WANT THE SEX. IN THE END WHAT YOU REALLY HAVE IS NOTHING. TO FIND TTRUE LOVE IS REALLY COMMON SENSE,YET SO MANY PEOLPE LACK THE BASIC SKILSS OF COMMON SENSE,WHICH LEADS THEM TO FIND OR TO SERCH FOR THE ANSWERS FROM SOMEONE ELSE. ALL THE WHILE WE WERE BORN WITH ALL THE ANSWERS FROM DAY ONE. NOW DONT GET IT TWISTED SOME HAVE HAD REALLY TRAMATIC EXPERIANCES IN LIFE WHICH HAVE ALTERD THIER PERCEPTION OF LIFE AND LOVE,CAUSING ONE TO SEEK IT THE BEST WAY THEY ONLY KNOW HOW. THIER APPROACH TO RELATIOSHIPS MAY NOT SIT WELL WITH OTHERS.WE SHOULD NOT JUDGE THEM. SOCIETY HAS MADE MANY CHANGES IN WHAT THEY THINK IS APPROPRIATE FOR A RELATIONSHIP,THUS BEGIN THE VAST CYCLE THAT MAY LEAD TO UNHAPPYNESS. LOVE IS LIKE A JOB YOU HAVE TO WORK ON IT DAILY FOR IT TO GIVE YOU REWARDS THROUGHOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SINIFICANT OTHER WHO EVER HE OR SHE MAY BE. IN YOUR DAY TO DAY JOB AFTER YOUR PROBATIONARY PERIOD YOU GET BENIFITS,BUT ONLY IF YOU WORK HARD AT IT AND YOU DONT GET TERMINATED. WELL RELATIONSHIPS ARE SOME WHAT SIMILAR. IF YOU WERE AT A CAMP FIRE AND TRYING TO KEEP WARM TO SURVIVE YOU WOULD STOKE THE FIRE TO KEEP IT GOING RIGHT???,WELL YOUR RELATIONSHIP ,YOUR MARRIGE IS THE SAME WAY,EXCEPT YOU DONT THROW WOOD ON YOUR MARRIGE OR YOUR RELATIONSHIP. PUT IT LIKE THIS IF YOU DONT STOKE YOUR FIRE IT WILL GO OUT,AND GUESS WHAT ITS GONNA GET PRETTY COLD,THUS THE DOWNWARD SPIRAL OF THE RELATIONSHIP COMMENCES.

WORK HARD FOR WHAT YOU WANT AND THE REWARDS CAN LAST A LIFE TIME.THATS ALL FOR NOW PEACE...AND GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

LADIES AND GENTLEMAN,TODAYS BLOG IS ON LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS.... IS A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP POSSIBLE? CAN IT LAST, IS IT A TEST FOR HIM / HER? ITS LIKE BEING WITH THAT PERSON EVEN THOUGH THEY ARE NOT THERE WITH YOU?... SOME SAY THEY DONT LAST ,SOME SAY ITS IMPOSSIBLE. OTHERS ARE JUST TOO WEAK TO TRY..(NOT SAYING EVERYONES IS WEAK) BUT IF YOU DONT THINK YOU CAN HANDLE IT WHY GET INTO IT? MOST OF US IN THIS WORLD KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG. WE KNOW OUR LEFT FROM OUR RIGHT. WE KNOW THE DIFFERANCE FROM UP AND DOWN. BUT WHY WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS WE PUT OUR FOOT IN OUR MOUTHS???? WHY DO WE COMMITTE TO SOMETHING WHEN WE KNOW DOG GONE WELL WE DONT MEAN IT. HENCE THE SAYING OUT OF SIGHT ...OUT OF MIND... WHAT I'M GETTING AT IS THIS,IF YOU MEET SOMEONE ON THE NET,YOU BOTH WOOOO THE HELL OUT OF EACH OTHER,BUT YET YOU BOTH LIVE IN TWO DIFFERENT LOCATIONS. BOTH OF YOUR EVERYDAY MOMENT IS SPENT THINKING OR TALKING TO THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE. STILL YOU HAVE NOT MET IN PERSON YET,BUT YOU FALL IN LOVE. NOW WHAT WE HAVE HERE IS WHAT SEEMS TO BE A LONG DISTANCE RELATION SHIP...SORT OF. YOU STILL LIVE YOUR EVERYDAY LIVES AND SUCH,YOU CALL EACH OTHER AND SO FORTH,BUT ONE OF YOU BREAKS THE CHAIN OF LOVE ,BY SLEEPING WITH HIS / HERS "X" . WHY???? CUZ THE OTHER PERSON WAS NOT THERE BUT YET YOU SAID YOU LOVE HIM / HER SO YOU BLAME THAT OTHER PERSON FOR NOT BEING THERE. LAME,LAME,LAME.ALL BECAUSE YOUR ASS WAS WEAK IN THE LOINS.!!! HMMMMM NOT COOL. WHAT IS SEX ANYWAY? 50 PUMPS...COUNT THEM IF YOU HAVE NOTHING ELSE TO DO.,AND THATS ONLY IF YOUR ASS GET THERE...LOL. LOVE JUST DOES NOT HAVE THAT VALUE LIKE IT USE TO HAVE. NO ONE RREALLY WORKS AT IT ANY MORE. EVERYONE JUST WANTS TO GET IN WHERE THEY FIT IN. SHAME. BE IT MAN OR WOMAN. MOST LOOK AT YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE WORKING WITH,AND YOUR STATUS,SOME DO ....GOD BLESS'EM GO FOR WHATS IN THE HEART. SOME OF US FALL IN LOVE FOR ALL THE WRONG REASONS,AND THEN WOUNDER WHAT WENT WRONG...... FROM THE GET GO IT WRONG!!!! YOU SEE LOVE IS NOT A THOUGHT ITS AN ACTION.... IF YOU HAVE TO THINK ABOUT IT THEN ITS NOT TRUE. YOU EITHER FEEL IT OR YOU DONT. HE'S A GOOD MAN,HE'S GOT MONEY,YADA,YADA,YADA AND VICE VERSA. MATERIAL THINGS COME AND GO. YOU CANT TAKE IT WITH YOU. THATS ALL FOR NOW ...I'LL LET YOU ALL PONDER THAT FOR A SPELL.BUT I'LL PUT OUT SOME MORE LATER.TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS....PEACE !!!!!!!