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Female, 38, Eatonton, GA
Posted Aug 31
Female, Age Private, Flushing, NY
I agree with both of you ladies. I also wanted to add that I do think it has something to do with where you yourself are in life and how comfortable you are in your own skin. For instance, my last relationship was totally different from the relationship I'm in now, mainly because I AM so different...more mature, stronger, aware, etc. In my last relationship I was completely taken advantage of, I mean don't get me wrong the guy is a sexist jerk [[that's not how I usually refer to him btw, just trying to remain civil, lol]], but I also recognize that I allowed him to sort of walk all over me because I was in such a vulnerable time in my life, NOW?? heh, *mira ver*...will never happen. My current bf is the complete opposite by nature (which helps and adds to the dynamic of our relationship) but somehow I feel like it's the energy I put out that attracted someone like him...am I making any sense? I'll end it here for now...
I WILL AGREE WITH YOU ON THAT COMMENT.COMFORT IS A GREAT FEELING.
Female, 32, Milwaukee, WI
I think that in order to have a truly healthy relationship, no matter what stage of your life, you still have to hold onto a large part of yourself. So many people make the mistake of letting go of some or all of their interests and devote their entire lives to their signifigant other. I think that YOU are the person that your partner fell in love with, and to change that, is unfair both to you and your man/woman. It is good to share interests and to do things together, but there has to be a balance. At least that's what works for myself and my husband. Every so often, I have dinner, drinks or whatever with my girlfriends and he once in a while does things with his friends or brothers. We also make it a point to go out on a date every once in a while without the children. After things like so, we feel rejuvenated and ready to face our everyday lives once again.
THIS IS SO TRUE AND IF YOU LOOSE ALL SENSE OF WHO YOU ARE THEN THERE IS NO MORE YOU TO GIVE. NEVER GIVE ALL OF YOURSELF UNTIL YOU DO NOT WHO OR WHERE YOU WENT TO.
THERE IS SO MUCH LOVE TO BE GIVEN OF ONE PERSON UNTIL IT CAN OVERWHELM AND D ESTROY.
Male, Age Private, Hoboken, NJ
Posted Sep 03
Female, 32, Tampa, FL
1 Corinthians 13:4 (New International Version) 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
Well, i'm baaaaaaaaaaaaaack!!!...i just wanted to say that i agree with u...peace and God bless!!!
Female, 23, Downey, CA
Posted Sep 16
Yes there is and puppy love is pure "LUST", you'll know when you truly love someone
Male, 44, Lansing, MI
Posted Sep 23
I think that so many people focus on having things in common and I do agree with that highly. Being compatible doesnt necessarily mean that you have everything in common. What it does mean is that you can work thru your differences. One persons strength might be another persons weakness. Differences can be worked out so when you find one that interests you, focus some attention on how will you work problems out instead of just throwing that one back in the water. Make sense?
Posted Oct 08
It makes a whole lot of sense...i agree with u!...peace!!!
Female, Age Private, Fairport, NY
Posted Oct 10
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Female, 38, Spring, TX
Posted Oct 21
Good Points and well said
Female, Age Private, Bronx, NY
Posted Oct 27
Yes their is a difference of a level of love...you can love anyone for different reasons but u can only be truly IN love with one person...being in love and loving someone is two different things
Male, 34, Enterprise, AL
Posted Nov 05
I dont know if there is a difference or levels of love but there are peaks and valleys in any relationship. Since all relationships have ups and down, your personal feelings will change accordingly. Remember there is a very thin line between love and hate...Kevin
Male, 44, Plainfield, NJ
Posted Nov 13
I'd like to apologize to the many members who have replied to this post. I didn't read ANY of your remarks because i was pressed for time. Do not take this as a slight OR a dis and please excuse me if someone has already touched on the point I'm about to make.There are 2 kinds/levels of love and they are CONDITIONAL and UNCONDITIONAL. CONDITIONAL LOVE is based on sexual attraction, convience and selfishnes. The length of the relationship doesn't matter because many marriages that ended in divorced were carried by years of "conditional love". Conditional love takes great measures to avoid obstacles in which the validity of the relationship will be established. Conditional love won't stand the test of time nor will it try to weather any storm that will come its way. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE is the level of love that is very difficult to obtain but is worth every effort given towards it. You love your family (mother/father/children/husban d/wife) UNCONDITIONALLY. All others falls into the CONDITIONAL bracket.There are only 2 levels of love.
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