Wow...I don't even know where to begin. The most important thing to
me is spending time with my children (all 5 of them)...yes 5. Still
there? Great. I enjoy cooking, dancing, listening to music and
spontaneity. I consider myself to be a simplistic person. What you
see is what you get. I admire HONESTY and LOYALTY. As a matter of
fact. This is a must for me. I know exactly what it is that I am
looking for and want. Frienship? Ok....if something else develops
after that? Who is to say? No one really controls the heart. My
ideal mate must be HONEST, LOYAL, & CONFIDANT in himself. My
ideal mate must be level during dire situations and must be a "take
charge" type of man. I expect him to be able to commmunicate with
me no matter what....and I mean "no matter" what. Without any
reservations. I must be able to feel that you are not only my
partner...but also my "best friend" - my "confidant' - no matter
what the subject or topic may be about. It would be awesome if my
"ideal" mate, has children as well. I dont like head games and i
find it an extreme turn off when a man tries to be something that
he is not in order to get my attention...so please...no "fronting".
He must also be so secure of himself that it would not bother him
that I have male friends. Yes i have those. Like I previously
stated. I know what i want in a relationship and what I am looking
to get out of this at the present time but I believe that the BEST
RELATIONSHIPS are the ones where a friendship was developed from
the get to. FATE DETERMINES WHO COMES INTO OUR LIVES, THE HEART
DETERMINES WHO STAYS. I am a firm believer in "Life is what you the
Individual make it". Like the saying goes...when life throws you a
lemon, make some lemonade.....:-) Love is not about finding the
right person, it's about creating a right relationship. It's not
about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you
build while you are together. What can you bring to the table?"
You're probably thinking that I am referring to money. "I am not
referring to money, I need something more. I need a man who is
striving for perfection in every aspect of life." "I am looking for
someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need
conversation and mental stimulation. I dont need a simple-minded
man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection
spiritually because I dont need to be unequally yoked...believers
mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who
is striving for perfection financially because I dont need a
financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough
to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to
keep me grounded. I am looking for someone whom I can respect. In
order to be submissive, I must RESPECT him. I cannot be submissive
to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem
being submissive...he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a
help mate for man. I can..t help a man if he can't help himself."
You are probably thinking to yourself... "You are asking a lot."
well.... "That's because I'm worth a lot." WHAT'S YOUR WORTH?
