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Man vs. Woman

A man is a person who, if a woman says,

"Never mind, I`ll do it myself;" lets her.

A woman is a person who, if she says to a

man, "Never mind, I`ll do it myself," and

he lets her; gets mad.

A man is a person who, if a woman says to

him, "Never mind, I`ll do it myself," and

he lets her and she gets mad; says, "Now

what are you mad about?"

A woman is a person who, if she says to a

man, "Never mind, I`ll do it myself," and

he lets her and she gets mad, and he says,

"Now what are mad about?" says, "If you

don`t know I`m not going to tell you!"


When I began this page I was hoping to stimulate some discussions.

I knew the page title would get attention and hoped the Mexican film lobby cards and posters would be fun to look.

Instead I`ve been called gay (I`m not but because I don`t say its wrong some people feel I must be gay), anti women (quite the oposite, I love real women its the little girl mentality that I have issues with), a hater (I try not to hate its just not healthy) and on the other hand, have received many notes from men and WOMEN who have told me they felt the same way I do.

So judge for yourself and drop me a note.

Women bore me.

God, I never thougt I`d ever say that but its true. So many

women especially so many Latinas are so clueless.

Ladies if you were to read as many of your MiGente pages as I have you`d find so much repetition of the same bullcrap. So I will try to explain why you women bore us.

Bad Boy vs Good Man

The major problem with women, especially Latinas is that they start dating by wanting the "Bad Boy" (you know treats women like they don`t matter, is a rebel, may not always hold a job). They continue to want "bad boys" until they are either burnt bad by one of these "bad boys" or until they are in their late 20`s or early 30`s when sudenly they want to get married and settle down They then begin to look for a "good man" (you know they guy with a job, is caring, sensitive to others, reponsible, etc) the problem is, and LADIES TAKE NOTE,


Now I know there are exceptions but this rule is basically true.

Ladies you are the ones who need to grow up. If you want a bad boy you can`t complain if he behaves like a bad boy.

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Ladies I know from reading all of your pages that your rug rat is "the joy of my life / my reason for living / your sunshine"

and this is very nice but please remember one day that child will grow up and you will be alone unless you invest in making youself a full person.

Also, a male who comes into your life he can be a friend / mentor / buddy to your kids but don`t expect him to be their father.


Okay this applies to both men and women. Getting a big %#&@$! ugly tattoo of a Dominican/Boricua/Cuban/Aztec flag on your arm doesn`t mean your being supportive of your people or culture.

Read a book, research your culture and the cultures of your fellow Latinos. Waving a flag with your durag decorated as a flag isn`t doing anything but displaying some major ignorance.


Ladies just because men tend to earn more that women (which is f*cked up) doesn`t mean you can`t attempt to support a relationship financially. You may not pay the entrance, the first six drinks (usually something clubs overcharge for), but would it kill you to ask to pay for breakfast? I know "well, if he wants to be with me he ought to pay", okay when your finished milking the poor sucker whose trying to treat you right, run home to your bad boy and then spend the rest of the day crying "Why do men treat you so bad".

Get a clue, try to balance the male/female thing and we all win.




Yeah, sure. Fellas if you see any line like this, understand, it really means :



If you meet a woman at a club and she is dressed like a JLo video, with her boobs sticking out and a dress painted on, with six inch heels and you become involved with her, you hav no right to demand she tone down her dress once you become a couple.

The question is why would you want to change that which attracted you in the first place.


I keep getting emails from females saying they think I bitter and don`t like women.

Just for the record, I love women, I just get bored with the inability of some of them to see whats in frount of them.

If a male is playing the bad boy and you choose to go after him, because you feel you can change him, then you just don`t get it.

You can`t change another you can only change yourself.

Chill and love yourself nena. You`ll find if your a better person you won`t be drawn into no win relationships and might actually make your next partner a better man.




if your screen name is something like "baja Panties 69", "Sex Machine 69", "Puta4u" or any of the other suggestive names you see on this site, then don`t get upset if males think your loose. If you want respect than give it to yourself first.

If your going to post pic then try to make it a recent one.

I went out with one you who had apparently posted a pic from when she was in high school and presently she is 70 pounds heavier and her hair was shade of orange I had never seen before.

Also the same way its wrong for a man to claim to be single when he`s not its also wrong a female to do the same (right Angie?)

I am not gay (although if it rocks your boat I don`t see anything wrong with it), I don`t hate women (well maybe I have a problem with the ones who don`t learn from their past and continue to make the same mistakes but I have issues with men who do the same thing), and I am not mentally disturbed (crazy maybe but not mentally disturbed...LOL).

It`s been very interesting the responses I have gotten from this page. There have been women who have sent love and support and then there are the others who are real angry at me and have questioned my sexuality and mental abilities.

All I can say to these women is

1. Look at some of the pages onMiGente of women who have some of the more suggestive names and tell me they aren`t looking for "Bad Boys"

2. Understand the basic rule that you cannot change anyone except yourself

3. If you know who you are you will enhance a relationship and yourself.

Real-Life Math -


Smart man + smart woman = romance

Smart man + dumb woman = affair

Dumb man + smart woman = marriage

Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy


Smart boss + smart employee = profit

Smart boss + dumb employee = production

Dumb boss + smart employee = promotion

Dumb boss + dumb employee = overtime


A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.

A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn`t need.


A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.

A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.

A successful woman is one who can find such a man.


To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.

To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.


Married men live longer than single men do, but married men are a lot more willing to die.


A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn`t.

A man marries a woman expecting that she won`t change, and she does.


A woman has the last word in any argument.

Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.


Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You`re next."

They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.


Someone just sent me this quote which I believe sums up everything:

"You can search throughout the entire universe for

someone who is more deserving of your love and

affection than you are yourself, and that person

is not to be found anywhere. You, yourself, as much

as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love

and affection."

~ Buddha


I`d like to thank all of you who have sent positive support my way.

To those of you who think everything written on the web is about you, please take a major chill pill!

Here`s the bottom line:

Men are from earth. Women are from earth.

Deal with it.

If I write something it is a generalization. I am not writing about one particular person and if I was believe me it wouldn`t be some of the cry babies who have left me complaining notes.

Oh well, asi es la vida, y la vida es sueno.


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I found something on FOREVERLONELY `s page (a great content and graphics) and felt it belonged here:

Eleven Commandments for a Smart Woman:

1.Thou shalt keep all thine expectations grounded in reality.

2.Thou shalt never forget thine priorities or thine sense of self.

3.Thou shalt not wait -on- any man more than he waits on you.

4.Thou shalt not wait -for- any man more than he waits on you.

5.Thou shalt not spend more time analyzing any man`s problems than you spend understanding your own.

6.Thou shalt not turn any mortal man into thine own personal god.

7.Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour`s drama.

8.Thou shalt judge all men, not by their words, but by the consistency of their deeds.

9.Thou shalt not tolerate any form of abuse.

10.Thou shalt develop thine own talents, thine own potential, and thine own independence.

11.Thou shalt be fair to the men in thine life and expect fairness in return.

Taken from: What Smart Women Know, by Steven Carter and Julia Sokoling

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