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Life is a Funny Thing

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Life is a funny thing

I have loved and lost but never like now

I feel it is no one else's fault but my own

For some strange reason I cannot get the fear of hurt out of the minds of those I care most about, even when the intension of being that man one says to want is in sight, the doors seem to shut close the moment I see the chance to step inside.

Life is a funny thing

I have loved and lost but never like now

I feel it is no one else's fault but my own

I guess my kind words can only take me so far, however for some reason I fail constantly to achieve the prize, I fail to hold the heart of the one which doesn't wish to be held; not to say I long for the challenge, that perhaps I can ploy a winning method to my madness, however

Life is a funny thing

I have loved and lost but never like now

I feel it is no one else's fault but my own

Maybe one day I will not be made out to be an attraction to liars, and those that say they will, will and those that say they won't, won't Is that so much to ask for? Is honesty such a heavy burden for one to bestow even once they have said, "I love you"?

Life is a funny thing

I have loved and lost but never like now

I feel it is no one else's fault but my own

Ladies, how soon does a date turn into a relationship?

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Ladies, how soon does a date turn into a relationship?

Poll Results of nearly 1000 women shows that 29 % of women believe it's after 3 months, which sounds reasonable, gives you time to try to get a feel for this person before you get involved in something unhealthy for you.

Now this is the #1 response from 5 different answers with close to 300 votes.

Before going to #2 which really shocked me, let me take you to our last place finisher, with 10% of the votes, 5 dates! So, what this tells me is that not many but around 10% of a non controlled group of women, regardless of race, ethnicity, or age feel that after 5 dates they know enough to commit themselves to this one man., Interesting.

Now here is the shocking #2, 24% say a date turns into a relationship once they've had sex!!! So, we meet tonight, hit it off, one thing leads to another and now we are in a relationship? I really want to conduct a survey of my own and ask the guys these same questions, and I bet you the word relationship will be the last thing they will be thinking once they have had sex with you. Now, I am not saying 100% of guys will agree, but #2 is not the place I see guys answering this question with.

Does anyone here reading this know why?

Before answering this let me give you some insight on why men cheat.

The reasons men cheat are as familiar, and pervasive, as the clich s they've inspired: His wife doesn't understand him. She constantly busts his chops. He just can't help himself. But if more women examined those motives and spotted the warning signs, they might be able to nip infidelity in the bud, claims Steve Santagati, author of The Manual: A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date and Mate - and What Women Can Do to Come Out on Top.

 

"Ninety-nine percent of the time, there's a simple reason why men cheat: boredom,"

 

Now back to the original question, a date turns into a relationship for a man when?

 

I will conduct the survey and get back to you ladies with an answer, to round off the rest of your replies; 3rd: 19% say after 6 months of dating do they consider themselves in a relationship, quiet a difference between or 1st, 2nd and 3rd place's would you agree? 4th: 15% say once he tells them "I love you" wow, ladies please tell me these numbers are wrong.

 

Take time to think this over and forward me your reply:

 

Ladies, how soon does a date turn into a "relationship?"

 

5 dates

 

3 months

 

6 months

 

Once you've had sex

 

When he tells you, "I Love You"

 

Infidelity, Tolerance and Communication part I

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It's a proven fact; the most common justification for infidelity from women is that they feel taken for granted.

 

When a woman feels like little more than a household drudge, attention from someone else becomes extremely seductive. If there's a failure to communicate - which is so reinforcing to women in terms of intimacy, emotional satisfaction and relationship satisfaction - then women look outside the relationship for that kind of connection.

 

This is the most important reason women cheat. When you're unhappy or dissatisfied in your relationship, you're more likely to be tempted to look elsewhere.

 

I have heard of older couples, those that have been together 40 - 50 years, tell me that they would take vacations from each other. Go away to the cabin for some well deserved time alone, or head to an exotic location without they mate, just to give each other time apart. I hear this and wonder how many men & women would actually go thru with this now a days, and stay faithful, stay happy.

 

Has time changed so much that our generation cannot keep a relationship alive, thru hard times, because of the ease of finding happy times with the next person, then when things get ruff, find happy times with the next? Is this a realistic way of living?

 

Me as the man, I know it's true, we come home from work, and even if our lady works we expect the house clean and diner ready, and it's not fair, I know. I personally love to cook, but I know many men that have no idea what the difference between a frying pan and a crock pot is lol

 

Much of what we tolerate from our significant other sometimes does us more damage in the long run than good. Tolerance as much as it is needed, means nothing without Communication. Let me explain, you may tolerate something's from your significant other just because they are that, your significant other, sometimes it's because you understand that one thing cause that something to happen because of past experience, "oh, he had a tuff childhood that's why he beats me " not trying to change the topic, however do you hear yourselves sometimes. Like Eve so well put it "Love is blind, and it will take over your mind what you think is love is truly not, you need to elevate and find"

 

Do you really need to have sex on the first date to feel loved?

 

Do you really need to accept the insults in public, to keep the peace?

 

If you come home from work ladies, find the house a mess, the dishes piled up, the kids running amuck, and your man playing Play station, waiting for you to go and cook do you think he loves you? Do you think he will change?

 

Tolerance breads ignorance without Communication.

 

It doesn't have to lead to Infidelity! Let's get it right from the start.

Just nits and pieces of a man's thoughts

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Just bits and pieces of a man's thoughts.

I sit here thinking of what could of and what should of How the decisions I have made in my life has trickled down thru time to the present, creating my future Wondering if the path before me can be rerouted restructured.

Just bits and pieces of a man's thoughts.

Living this high speed life style and the only speed bumps I find are the reality checks that hit my hard, so, so hard Living with this guilt, frustrated with love, thinking about somebody else, someone I've never met Someone I will never hold, kiss, touch someone I yearn to dance with.

Just bits and pieces of a man's thoughts.

Everyone can agree, no matter how hard you try, the benefits of being single don't outweigh the pleasures of having someone you love by your side, on those lonely nights, on those rainy days

Just bits and pieces of a man's thoughts.

Even if you went out every night to a different club with a different person, you know that in time, you will be stuck in the house, not wanting to have fun cause all you'll be thinking about is that one person, that one person you love, and doesn't love you back

Just bits and pieces of a man's thoughts.

When you feel it in your body, with just a thought it sends shivers down your spine, wanting to call that person, wanting to hold that person wanting and needing to stop thinking about this person who once made you so happy Life passes so fast, time waits for no one.

Just bits and pieces of a man's thoughts.

Rambling of a love I will never have is all I have left

Crying myself to sleep when the rest of the world is sound asleep

Just bits and pieces of a man's thoughts.

Wanting to run so far, so far away, fore maybe tomorrow it will bring a better day, the distance, and the space the difference in the smell of the air; maybe a lighter shade of blue in the sky can brighten my days.

Just bits and pieces of a man's thoughts.

How far can a dream take you, before reality pulls you back ?

How much must one endure before reaching utopia ?

Just bits and pieces of a man's thoughts.

Introduction

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For those of you that know me and my work, you should already know what to expect, for the new face's to MiGente, and those just new to my page, I will be discussing in the depth, many of the things already put in play in the Lets talk about sex group, a.k.a. Sex 101, also I will be blog'n my many disadventures on the poker tables in Atlantic City.

Hope you enjoy what I have to share with you all. Thank you for passing by.