NOW KEEP IN MIND I ASK U 2 READ MY WHOLE PROFILE. NOT JUST 2 KNOW ABOUT WHO & WHAT I AM (HOW MUCH MONEY I EARN &/OR DO I LOOK GOOD ENOUGH IN MY PICS 4 U). YET ALSO U MITE LEARN SOMETHING ABOUT U`R SELF. BCUZ AS WE ALL KNOW...WELL MOST OF US ANYWAY THAT THERE ISN'T ANYTHING SO MORE IMPORTANT THEN LEARNING ABOUT 1'S SELF. THE ONLY OTHER THING IS THEN LEARNING ABOUT GOD. NOW WITH THAT SAID & DONE...HERE WE GO FOLKS!!! AS 4 WHO AM I...HHHMMM!!! THAT`S ALL TO EASY. 1ST. I`M A GOD FEARING & GOD LOVING, SIMPLE AN STRAIGHT TO THE POINT DOWN 2 EARTH NO TIME 4 B.S. TYPE OF GUY. I LOVE MOVIES. EITHER GOING OUT TO SEE THEM OR STAYING AT HOME TO WATCH THEM. I ALSO LOVE MUSIC. NOW NOT LIKE ANY NORMAL PERSON. I LISTEN TO ALL TYPES OF MUSIC. AN JUST LIKE MY MOVIES I LOVE TO GO OUT AN WATCH, LISTEN & DANCE TO IT (LIVE OR NOT). AN I HAVE ALL TYPES OF MUSIC IN MY COLLECTION. YET 4 THE MOST PART WHAT I LOVE MORE THEN ANYTHING IS BEING A MUSICIAN. I'M A DRUMMER & A TRUMPET PLAYER. SO 4 ME THERE ISN'T ANYTHING MORE SO ENJOYABLE THEN PLAYING LIVE MUSIC. I ALSO LOVE LITERATURE. IMAGINATIVE OR CREATIVE WRITING THAT TAKES YOU AWAY FROM THE EVERYDAY IN, OUT, IN, OUT IS A GREAT READ. AN THAT I LOVE TO DO. AN SOME TIMES IT`S EVEN BETTER WITH SOME LOVELY RELAXING MUSIC (THERE I GO WITH THE MUSIC THING AGAIN). I ALSO LOVE TO TAKE PHOTOS. I ALSO LOVE GOING TO LINCOLN CENTER AN WATCHING THE NUTCRACKER SUITE DURING THE WINTER SEASON, BROADWAY AND OFF BROADWAY PLAYS, RADIO CITY MUSIC HALL, MUSEUMS, PHOTO GALLERY`S, SOUTH STREET SEAPORT, SHOOTING POOL (THAT'S A BIG 1 THERE), & NYC NIGHT LIFE. AN ALL IT HAS TO OFFER. BARS, LOUNGES, DANCE CLUBS, LATIN CLUBS, ROCK CLUBS, & HOT JAZZ CLUBS. WELL WITH ALL THIS SAID AND DONE LADY`S. I`M JUST A VERY OPEN MINDED, UNDERSTANDING, PATIENT, SENSITIVE, CARING & NOT THE EMBARRASSED TYPE OF PERSON.
NOW 1 THING U NEED 2 KNOW ABOUT ME IS I LOVE THINGS THAT R FUNNY AS ALL HELL & IN ALL THE WRONG WAYS & 4 ALL THE WRONG REASONS. SO HERE R 2 LINKS THAT MAKE MY POINT SO...ENJOY!!!
NOW 4 THE HARDEST PART OR SO THEY TELL ME...LOL!!! B-CAUSE EVERYONE THAT I KNOW AFTER I TELL THEM WHAT I`M LOOKING FOR HAS SAID TO ME THAT KIND OF LADY JUST DOESN`T EXIST. AN I JUST FIND THAT NOT TO BE SO. DESPITE THE FACT THAT I`M STILL SINGLE TO THIS DAY. I STILL ACCEPT AS TRUTH THAT SHE WHOMEVER SHE IS, IS OUT THERE...SOME WHERE. AN SHE MAY NOT EVEN B HERE...WELL BACK TO THE ISSUE AT HAND. WHAT KIND OF LADY AM I LOOKING FOR. WELL SHE MUST BE GOD FEARING & GOD LOVING, POLITE, HAVE MANNERS (THERE NOT THE SAME THING), CONFIDENT & SURE OF HERSELF. AN HAS A MAINTAINING EQUILIBRIUM FINANCIALLY. AN KNOWS HER LIMITATIONS. AN ISN`T AFRAID TO ADMIT IT TO HERSELF OR OUT LOUD 2 OTHERS. SOME ONE THAT DOESN`T GET EMBARRASSED OUT IN PUBLIC AT ALL. BECAUSE I NEVER AM. B-CAUSE I`LL SAY & DO ANYTHING AT ANY TIME...EVEN IN CHURCH. IT DOESN'T MATTER WHO`S AROUND...WELL WITHIN REASON...LOL!!! SHE ABSOLUTELY MUST HAVE THE GREATEST OF GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR. BECAUSE THERE IS HUMOR IN EVERYTHING. NO MATTER WHAT IT IS. EVEN IN DEATH. IT`S REALLY ALL IN THE TIMING. SHE CAN NOT BE OVERLY SENSITIVE. BUT ENOUGH TO KNOW WHEN TO GO ABOVE AND BEYOND THE CALL OF MORAL OBLIGATION. (HELPING ANOTHER PERSON OR STRAY ANIMALS) SOME ONE THAT IS WORLDLY. AN KNOWS WHAT`S GOING ON AROUND THEM (NOT JUST THE BLOCK). AN THE WORLD THEY LIVE ON. SOME ONE THAT I CAN CONVERSABLE WITH AN CAN HOLD A SPOKEN EXCHANGE WITH ME (ACUTE). SOME ONE THAT ENJOYS THE QUIET AND PEACEFUL TIMES AS WELL AS THE LOUD AND CRAZY TIMES. SOME ONE THAT LOVES TO ENJOY TIMES BEING IN AS WELL AS BEING OUT PAINTING THE TOWN RED. (I AM A HOMEBODY @ HEART. BUT I DO LOVE TO GO OUT AS WELL) LAST YET NEVER LEST I NEED (NEED NOT WANT THERE NOT THE SAME THING. AN IF U DO NOT UNDERSTAND THIS THEN GO OFF 2 THE NEXT PROFILE PLEASE, THANK U) SOME ONE THAT DOES NOT LIE, CHEAT, PUT OTHERS IN HARMS WAY, IS NOT DISHONEST, ARROGANT, (BUT SURE OF HER SELF) ILL-MANNERED & /OR A SLACKER (I CAN`T DEAL WITH SOME 1 THAT DOES NOTHING POSITIVE WITH THERE LIFE). WELL FOLKS IF YOU READ THE TYPE OF MALE THAT I AM THEN YOU KNOW WHAT I`M LOOKING FOR. SOME ONE JUST LIKE ME. NO MORE. NO LESS. THE BAR IS RAISED HIGH. AN I REFUSE 2 SETTLE 4 LESS WHEN IT COMES 2 A LADY IN MY LIFE. YET WITH A LITTLE GIVE AN TAKE HERE AN THERE. AN THAT'S AFTER WE KNOW EACH OTHER. AN WE'RE 2-GETHER. I KNOW YOUR OUT THERE. SO I HOPE TO MEET YOU SOON. YET I KNOW IT'S NOT ON MY TIME YET GOD'S TIME. AN AS WE KNOW...WELL MOST OF US ANYWAY GOD'S ALWAYS ON TIME. SO THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR READING MY PROFILE THUS FAR (IT'S A HELL OF A RIDE)...LMAO!!! ():-)
1 THING I'VE COME 2 FIND OUT IN LIFE IS THE VALUE OF A SMILE. AN JUST HOW FAR IT CAN TAKE U IN LIFE & JUST HOW MUCH BETTER MY LIFE IS 4 DOING SUCH. SO 1ST. I NEED 2 SAY THANK U 2 A VERY SPECIAL LADY THAT'S ON HERE. AN THAT I'VE COME 2 KNOW AN CAN ONLY HOPE 2 KNOW EVEN BETTER. SO SOFIA THANK U 4 THAT GREAT CANVERSATION ABOUT SMILING (WITH TEETH). THIS PART OF MY PROFILE IS BCUZ OF U. ():-) YET I'M SORRY THAT I'M GOING 2 MISS U WHILE U'R IN NYC. I'M GOING 2 B AWAY IN HAWAII @ THAT TIME. SO LIKE I WAS SAYING SMILING A GREAT THING 2 DO & I NEED 2 C MORE OF IT HERE. WITH PEOPLE LOOKING ALL SERIOUS, HARD &/OR TUFF ALL @ THE SAME TIME ALL OF THE TIME IN ALMOST EVERY PIC THAT THEY'VE POSTED...GEEE WIZZZ!!! SO HERE IS A POAM ABOUT JUST THAT.
THE VALUE OF A SMILE
IT COSTS NOTHING , YET CREATES MUCH. IT ENRICHES THOSE WHO RECEIVE, WITHOUT IMPOVERISHING THOSE WHO GIVE. IT HAPPENS IN A FLASH & THE MEMORY OF IT SOMETIMES LASTS 4-EVER. NONE R SO RICH THEY CAN GET ALONG WITHOUT IT, & NONE SO POOR YET R RICHER 4 IT'S BENEFITS. IT CREATES HAPPINESS IN THE HOME, FOSTERS GOODWILL IN A BUSINESS, & IS THE COUNTERSIGN OF FRIENDS. IT IS REST 2 THE WEARY, DAYLIGHT 2 THE DISCOURAGED, SUNSHINE 2 THE SAD, & NATURE'S BET ANTIDOTE 4 TROUBLE. YET IT CANNOTB BOUGHT, BEGGED, BORROWED OR STOLEN, 4 IT IS SOMETHING THAT IS NO EARTHLY GOOD 2 ANY 1 TILL IT IS GIVEN AWAY. & IF IN THE HURLY-BURLY BUSTLE OF 2-DAY BUSINESS ORLD, SOME OF THE PEOPLE U MEET SHOULD B 2 TIRED 2 GIVE U A SMILE, MAY WE ASK U 2 LEAVE 1 OF U'RS??? 4 NOBODY NEEDS A SMILE SO MUCH, AS THOSE WHO HAVE NONE LEFT 2 GIVE. SO HERE IS A SMILE 4 ALL OF U. ():-)
A FRIEND OF MINE SAID THAT I SHOULD ADD THIS PART IN MY PROFILE AFTER READING WHAT I JUST TYPED. Y I DON'T KNOW (SCROLL UP AN READ IT AGAIN IF U MUST. I FEEL I SAID IT ALL). YET HERE U GO. WHAT AM I LOOKING 4 IN A WOMAN...HUMMM!!! I`LL MAKE THIS SHORT & SWEET. IF IN ANYWAY U LIKED WHAT U READ THUS FAR & R LIKE THAT IN ANYWAY (MY PROFILE, KEEP ON READING). THEN I HAVE 2 SAY I WOULD LOVE 2 TALK & MAY B MEET U. B-CAUSE I`M MORE THEN ANY OF THIS (MY PROFILE) WOULD LEAD U 2 B-LIEVE. (AS I`M SURE U R)
Gender: Male
Location: New York, NY, USA
Height: 5` 10"
Build: Slender
Hair: Dark Brown
Eyes: Black
Status: Single - never been married
Children: 0
Drinking: On occasion
Religion: Lutheran
Field of Work: Owner/CEO, Money Management/Investment Counslor. An with that I have my hands in the world Music, Movies, & Modeling...In other words...Busy, Busy, Busy!!!
Ethnicity: Other
Native: Language English
Originally From: USA
What would you like to do on a first date?
AS U CAN TELL IN THE ABOVE STATEMENT. I`M NOT LIKE ANY OTHER GUY U WILL EVER KNOW OR MEET. (SO THEY TELL ME) AS 4 WHAT I`D LIKE ON A 1ST DATE...HUMMM!!! WELL THAT ALL DEPENDS ON THE TYPE OF WOMAN I`M WITH. IF SHE`S THE LOUD, DRINKING, SMOKING & CLUBBING TYPE OF WOMAN. THEN WE R GOING 2 HAVE A LOUD, DRINKING, SMOKING & CLUBBING GREAT TIME 2-GETHER THEN. IF SHE`S THE LAID BACK, EASY GOING, SOFT SPOKEN TYPE OF WOMAN. THEN WE R GOING 2 HAVE A LAID BACK, EASY GOING, SOFT SPOKEN GREAT TIME 2-GETHER THEN. YES LADY`S!!! IT`S REALLY THAT EASY 4 ME. WHETHER WE`RE OUT AN ABOUT PAINTING THE TOWN RED OR IN DOORS WATCHING MOVIES EATING POPCORN, TAKEOUT OR A MAJESTIC HOME COOKED MEAL. (YES LADY`S I COOK!!! AN I LOVE 2 COOK AS WELL. AN THEN SOME...MMM, MMM, GOOD!!!) I AM SINGLE REMEMBER. AN THERE ISN`T ANY 1 WHO`S GOING 2 TAKE CARE OF ME BETTER THEN ME. SO MY MOTHER TELLS ME...WELL 4 NOW ANYWAY...LOL!!! WE`LL C ABOUT THAT. ():-)
Why you should get to know me:
HELLO!!! IS THIS THING ON!!! LOL!!! WHO`S PROFILE R U READING. LIKE U HAVE 2 ASK. UNLESS U`R ILLITERATE. BUT HOW DID U MAKE IT THIS FAR...LOL!!! I KNOW PEOPLE R THINKING I CAN`T B-LIEVE HE JUST SAID THAT. WELL 4 THOSE FOLKS U NEED 2 SCROLL UP AN READ THE 1ST ESSAY OVER AGAIN. SO SEND ME A FRIEND INVITE. AN LETS MAKE THIS HAPPEN.
What have past relationships taught you?
WELL I KNOW THAT ALL OF U. IF NOT 4 THE MOST PART. MOST OF U R ONLINE &/OR IN THE REAL WORLD R ON U`R QUEST 4 LOVE. NOT REAL LOVE THAT PEOPLE CLAM 2 HAVE 4 1 ANOTHER. NOW THAT`S NOT 2 SAY THAT THERE ISN`T MANY DIFFERENT LEVELS OF LOVE. (HUSBAND 2 WIFE, SISTER 2 BROTHER, BF 2 GF, WOMEN 2 MEN, SO ON & SO ON) BUT EITHER IT IS LOVE OR IT IS NOTLOVE. B-CAUSE THERE ISN`T ANY MIDDLE GROUND WHEN IT COMES 2 U`R HEART. IF NOT THEN IT`S JUST SEX, LUST, INFATUATION &/OR DESIRE. AN IN OF IT SELF IS A GREAT THING. WHEN IT`S DONE IN THE RIGHT MANNER. (POSITIVE) B-CAUSE WE ALL @ 1 POINT OR ANOTHER HAVE DONE THEM ALL. SEX, OUTSIDE OF THOSE THAT HAVEN`T YET HAD SEX. WE ALL KNOW JUST HOW BEAUTIFUL & LOVELY IT IS. (SAFELY) LUST, INFATUATION &/OR DESIRE. HAVING HAD SEX OR NOT. WE ALL @ 1 TIME OR ANOTHER FALLIN` UNDER THE PRAY OF LUST, INFATUATION &/OR DESIRE) BUT WHEN ANY &/OR ALL R USED 2 HURT, LIE, PUT ANY 1 IN HARMS WAY, CHEAT &/OR USED THERE BODY & THERE FEELINGS 2 GET WHAT U WANT OUT OF THEM. WITH OUT ANY REGARD 2 THEM AS A PERSON. (NEGATIVE)
WELL WITH THAT ALL SAID AN DONE HERE IS SOME FOOD 4 THOUGHT. AS U TRAVEL DOWN OR UP THAT ROAD WE CALL LIFE.
WHEN YOU FALL IN LOVE IT IS A TEMPORARY MADNESS. IT ERUPTS LIKE AN EARTHQUAKE, AN THEN IT SUBSIDES. AN WHEN IT SUBSIDES, YOU HAVE TO MAKE A DECISION. YOU HAVE TO WORK OUT WHETHER YOUR ROOTS HAVE BECOME SO ENTWINED TOGETHER...THAT IT IS INCONCEIVABLE THAT YOU SHOULD EVER PART...BECAUSE THIS IS WHAT LOVE IS. LOVE IS NOT BREATHLESSNESS. IT IS NOT EXCITEMENT. IT`S NOT THE DESIRE TO MATE EVERY SECOND OF THE DAY. IT`S NOT LYING AWAKE AT NIGHT IMAGINING THAT HE IS KISSING EVERY PART OF YOUR BODY. NO. DON`T BLUSH. I`M TELLING YOU SOME TRUTHS. THAT IS JUST BEING IN LOVE, WHICH ANY OF US CAN CONVINCE OURSELVES WE ARE. LOVE ITSELF IS WHAT IS LEFTOVER, WHEN BEING IN LOVE HAS BURNED AWAY. DOESN`T SOUND VERY EXCITING, DOES IT? BUT IT IS.
WELL IF ANY OF U FEEL THE NEED &/OR WANT 2 E-MAIL ME...I'M @ FMSEXYHOT@GMAIL.COM & MY I.M. S.N. IS FMSEXYHOT@YAHOO.COM
Five Secrets Your Date Won`t Share
Within the first five dates, she`ll tell you her life story, her dream vacations, and how much she hates her boss. But there are few things she won`t share with you now...or maybe ever.
She thinks you`re a tightwad
Even if she insists on paying or splitting the bill on the first few dates, she`ll still think you`re cheap if you let her. Yeah, it sucks, but it`ll be much easier to gallantly reach for your wallet than it will be to face her judgments.
She`s testing you
When she asks about your quirky sexual proclivities or how your last relationship ended, she`s not just idly curious. Your every word, action, gesture and facial expression is analyzed, scrutinized and judged at length.
She`s sporting ugly undies and unshaved legs
The more she likes you, the less she wants to sleep with you (initially). She knows what you guys think about girls who put out on the first date - regardless of what you say you think. But her self control can slip around a guy as sexy as you, so the granny panties are a preventative measure to keep her from hopping in the sack too soon.
She`s obsessing over when you`ll call
She knows all about your little rules about when it`s the right time to call after a date. But that doesn`t keep her from agonizing over whether you`ll call, why you haven`t called, and when you finally will call. Give her a break already and just pick up the phone. Don`t worry about looking over-eager; if she`s into you, a day will feel like a lifetime.
Her best friend knows everything
Her closest pal is privy to all the observations she`s made and all the information she gleaned about you and your known ex-girlfriends when she Googled you. Her pal also knows how this information compares to anyone else she`s ever dated. This is something to be aware of when she finally introduces you. You`re not imagining that knowing smirk her friend is giving you.
What Women Want Most In A Man
It`s not good looks. It`s not money. It`s not a charming personality. It`s not a powerful career. What women want most in a man is fidelity.
Fully 54 percent of women responding to a Leger Marketing-Canadian Press poll cited "a faithful partner" when asked what they thought was most important when choosing a mate, reports the Canadian Press. Men also cited fidelity as an important attribute, but not surprisingly they also highly valued physical attraction and being good in bed
Here are the results of the Leger Marketing-Canadian Press survey of 1,052 adults that was conducted in January. Participants were asked tochoose the three attributes they most valued in a potential mate, so the numbers add up to more than 100 percent.
What women want most in a man:
1. Faithful partner: 54 percent
2. Respect the other person`s independence: 40 percent
3. Ability to listen: 35 percent
4. Physical attraction: 13 percent
5. Being good in bed: 6 percent
What men want most in a woman:
1. Faithful partner: 47 percent
2. Respect the other person`s independence: 36 percent
3. Ability to listen: 35 percent
4. Physical attraction: 26 percent
5. Being good in bed: 13 percent
The best place to meet that special someone:
1. Introduced by friends: 40 percent
2. Chance or luck: 17 percent
3. Introduced by family: 11 percent
4. Sports or social clubs: 7 percent
5. Work: 3 percent
6. Bars: 2 percent
7. Internet: 1 percent
9. Newspaper classifieds: 1 percent
Here`s something that should gladden every heart: Fully 90 percent of those polled believe it is possible to be happy with the same person for a lifetime.
Sharpen Your Sex Appeal Skills
Yeah, that`s right skills. Oozing sex appeal is a learned trait, not something that just comes additionally with a cute figure or six-figure salary. Here`s how you can pump up your pleasing proficiency.
Fake It
There are a lot of things you shouldn`t feign when you`re trying to flirt with that fox across the room. Like lying about your marital status, for one. But it`s safe to be a faker about one thing - and that`s confidence. Think you need to be perfect to pull it off? Nah. It`s waaay more sexy - and fun - to be with someone who`s uninhibited in their less-than-flawless looks than with someone who`s a ten, but timid.
Look Sharp
Yeah, it sucks, but appearances count big-time when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. Social scientists - and barflys - have known for years that men and women alike tend to be more tolerant of uninvited sexual advances if the advancing party is a hot little number. So, it can`t hurt you to try to look your best, even if you`re not movie-star sexy.
Learn A New Trick
Tired of trotting out the same tired "so do you come here often" lines? Then learn a new trick. Figure out how to read an astrology chart or perfect your palm reading skills. Most people are suckers for that kind of stuff. And there`s a lot of fun flirting potential in caressing some cute stranger`s hand and predicting a "great love" in their future.
Tweak Your Body Talk
The language of love is largely an unspoken one. Scientists have long studied how humans - and animals - attract and hold onto mates by silently, and usually unwittingly, engaging in mating rituals. "In couples attracted to one another, there occurs a mutual dance of movement, posturing, and body positioning that mirrors the other," says Dr. Dino Pranzarone, professor of psychology at Roanoke College in Virginia. Consciously employing in these courtship methods can often result in winning the phone number of that sexy stranger, or keeping your long-term love steamy.
Meant For Each Other? Four Questions To Ask Yourself
Lust is so easy to recognize. But real, honest-to-goodness love? Well, that`s a little trickier. Fortunately, we`ve got four clues that canhelp you recognize whether your honey is just a good time, or something even better.
Are you in there?
It`s easy to lose yourself in lust. But for real love to take place, you still have to be yourself, living your own life, with your own separate interests and dreams. Are you able to be yourself around your sweetie (or do you find yourself biting your tongue to keep from saying something you know will be met with disapproval)? It takes trust to be able to reveal your not-so-good side. Have you got it?
Are you fighting fair?
It`s not whether or not you fight - because you will - it`s how you do it. Do you both address the issues that irk you or do you ignore them? Do either of you resort to down-and-dirty fighting tactics (getting defensive, name-calling, etc)? Are you keeping a record of who "wins" and "loses"? Or do you use these "discussions" as an opportunity to get what`s bothering you out in the open and come to a mutually satisfying solution?
Are you on the same page?
It`s not enough that you both love the same movies and music. Do you have a general idea of your potential partner`s values, goals, and what`s important to them? Don`t fret if there are differences in your ideals. Just determine whether they`re non-issues (he`s a dog person, you`re a cat person), complimentary (he`s a morning person...but he makes you coffee), or something that might cause friction down the road (like differences in the desire to have kids), so you know what to expect.
Are you cared for?
Real lovers play for the same team. Is your mate there for you when you need them, cheering you on when you face challenges, picking you up when you fall, and just generally making you feel nurtured?
An in the end which never really ends @ all It just keeps on going & going & going & going. Such is life...Right??? So i`m sure their will b more added 2 my profile since I never stop learning. That then brings me 2 this I`ve learned that there r @ lest 10 types of women & men in this world & each of them have there own symbol that sums up who, what, y, where, when & how they r. (An race matters not)
1. THE SIREN
A MAN IS OFTEN SECRETLY OPPRESSED BY THE ROLE HE HAS 2 PLAY-BY ALWAYS HAVING 2 B RESPONSIBLE, IN CONTROL, & RATIONAL. THE SIREN IS THE ULTIMATE MALE FANTASY FIGURE BCUZ SHE OFFERS A TOTAL RELEASE FROM THE LIMITATIONS OF HIS. IN HER PRESENCE, WHICH IS ALWAYS HEIGHTENED & SEXUALLY CHARGED, THE MALE FEELS TRANSPORTED 2 A WORLD OF PURE PLEASURE. SHE IS DANGEROUS, & IN PURSUING HER ENERGETICALLY THE MAN CAN LOSE CONTROL OVER HIMSELF, SOMETHING HE YEARNS 2 DO. THE SIREN IS A MIRAGE; SHE LURES MEN BY CULTIVATING A PARTICULAR APPEARANCE & MANNER. IN A WORLD WHERE WOMEN R OFTEN 2 TIMID 2 PROJECT SUCH AN IMAGE, LEARN 2 TAKE CONTROL OF THE MALE LIBIDO BY EMBODYING HIS FANTASY.
SYMBOL: WATER.
THE SONG OF THE SIREN IS LIQUID & ENTICING, & THE SIREN HERSELF IS FLUID & UNGRASPABLE. LIKE THE SEA, THE SIREN LURES U WITH THE PROMISE OF INFINITE ADVENTURE & PLEASURE. 4-GETTING PAST & FUTURE, MEN FOLLOW HER OUT 2 SEA, WHERE THEY DROWN.
2. THE RAKE
A WOMAN NEVER QUITE FEELS DESIRED & APPRECIATED ENOUGH. SHE WANTS ATTENTION, BUT A MAN IS 2 OFTEN DISTRACTED & UNRESPONSIVE. THE RAKE IS A GREAT FEMALE FANTASY FIGURE-WHEN HE DESIRES A WOMAN, BRIEF THOUGH THAT MOMENT MAY B, HE WILL GO 2 THE ENDS OF THE EARTH 4 HER. HE MAY B DISLOYAL, DISHONEST, & AMORAL, BUT THAT ONLY ADDS 2 HIS APPEAL. UNLIKE THE NORMAL, CAUTIOUS MALE , THE RAKE IS DELIGHTFULLY UNRESTRAINED, A SLAVE 2 HIS-LOVE OF WOMEN. THERE IS THE ADDED LURE OF HIS REPUTATION: SO MANY WOMEN HAVE SUCCUMBED 2 HIM, THERE HAS 2 B A REASON.WORDS R A WOMAN`S WEAKNESS, & THE RAKE IS A MASTER OF SEDUCTIVE LANGUAGE. STIR A WOMAN`S REPRESSED LONGINGS BY ADAPTING THE RAKE`S MIX OF DANGER & PLEASURE.
SYMBOL: FIRE.
THE RAKE BURNS WITH A DESIRE THAT ENFLAMES THE WOMAN HE IS SEDUCING. IT IS EXTREME, UNCONTROLLABLE, & DANGEROUS. THE RAKE MAY END IN HELL, BUT THE FLAMES SURROUNDING HIM OFTEN MAKE HIM SEEM THAT MUCH MORE DESIRABLE 2 WOMEN.
3. THE IDEAL LOVER
MOST PEOPLE HAVE DREAMS IN THEIR YOUTH THAT GET SHATTERED OR WORN DOWN WITH AGE. THEY FIND THEMSELVES DISAPPOINTED BY PEOPLE, EVENTS, REALITY, WHICH CANNOT MATCH THEIR YOUTHFUL IDEALS. IDEAL LOVERS THRIVE ON PEOPLE`S BROKEN DREAMS, WHICH B-COME LIFELONG FANTASIES. U LONG 4 ROMANCE??? ADVENTURE??? LOFTY SPIRITUAL COMMUNION??? THE IDEAL LOVER REFLECTS U`R FANTASY. HE OR SHE IS AN ARTIST IN CREATING THE ILLUSION U REQUIRE, IDEALIZING U`R PORTRAIT. IN A WORLD OF DISENCHANT MENT & BASENESS, THERE IS LIMITLESS SEDUCTIVE POWER IN FOLLWING THE PATH OF THE IDEAL LOVER.
SYMBOL: THE PORTRAIT PAINTER.
UNDER HIS EYE, ALL OF U`R PHYSICAL IMPERFECTIONS DISAPPEAR. HE BRINGS OUT NOBLE QUALITIES IN U, FRAMES U IN A MYTH, MAKES U GODLIKE, IMMORTALIZES U . 4 HIS ABILITY 2 CREATE SUCH FANTASIES, HE IS REWARDED WITH GREAT POWERS.
4. THE DANDY
MOST OF US FEEL TRAPPED WITHIN THE LIMITED ROLES THAT THE WORLD EXPECTS US 2 PLAY. WE R INSTANTLY ATTRACTED 2 THOSE WHO R MORE FLUID, MORE AMBIGUOUS, THEN WE R-THOSE WHO CREATE THEIR OWN PERSONA. DANDIES EXCITE US BCUZ THEY CANNOT CATEGORIZED, & HINT @ A FREEDOM WE WANT 4 OURSELVES. THEY PLAY WITH MASCULINITY & FEMININITY; THEY FASHION THEIR OWN PHYSICAL IMAGE, WHICH IS ALWAYS STARTLING; THEY R MYSTERIOUS & ELUSIVE. THEY ALSO APPEAL 2 THE NARCISSISM OF EACH SEX: 2 A WOMAN THEY R PSYCHOLOGICALLY FEMALE, 2 A MAN THEY R MALE. DANDIES FASCINATE & SEDUCE IN LARGE NUMBERS. USE THE POWER OF THE DANDY 2 CREATE AN AMBIGUOUS, ALLURING PRESENCE THAT STIRS REPRESSED DESIRES.
SYMBOL: THE ORCHID.
ITS SHAPE & COLOR ODDLY SUGGEST BOTH SEXES, IT`S ODOR IS SWEET & DECADENT-IT IS A TROPICAL FLOWER OF EVIL. DELICATE & HIGHLY CULTIVATED, IT IS PRIZED 4 ITS RARITY; IT IS UNLIKE ANY OTHER FLOWER.
5. THE NATURAL
CHILDHOOD IS THE GOLDEN PARADISE WE R ALWAYS CONSCIOUSLY OR UNCONSCIOUSLY TRYING 2 RE-CREATE. THE NATURAL EMBODIES THE LONGED 4 QUALITIES OF CHILDHOOD-SPONTANEITY, SINCERITY, UNPRETENTIOUSNESS. IN THE PRESENCE OF NATURALS, WE FEEL @ EASE, CAUGHT UP THEIR PLAYFUL SPIRIT, TRANSPORTED BACK 2 THAT GOLDEN AGE. NATURALS ALSO MAKE A VIRTUE OUT OF WEAKNESS, ELICITING OUR SYMPATHY 4 THEIR TRIALS, MAKING US WANT 2 PROTECT THEM & HELP THEM. AS WITH A CHILD, MUCH OF THIS IS NATURAL, BUT SOME OF IT IS EXAGGERATED, A CONSCIOUS SEDUCTIVE MANEUVER. ADOPT THE POSE OF THE NATURAL 2 NEUTRALIZE PEOPLE`S NATURAL DEFENSIVENESS & INFECT THE WITH HELPLESS DELIGHT.
SYMBOL: THE LAMB.
SO SOFT & ENDEARING. @ 2 DAYS OLD THE LAMB CAN GAMBOL GRACEFULLY; WITHIN A WEEK IT IS PLAYING "FOLLOW THE LEADER." ITS WEAKNESS IS PART OF ITS CHARM. THE LAMB IS PURE INNOCENCE, SO INNOCENT WE WANT 2 POSSESS IT, EVEN DEVOUR IT.
6. THE COQUETTE
THE ABILITY 2 DELAY SATISFACTION IS THE ULTIMATE ART OF SEDUCTION-WHILE WAITING, THE VICTIM IS HELD IN THRALL. COQUETTES R THE GRAND MASTER OF THE GAME, ORCHESTRATING A BACK-&-FORTH MOVEMENT B-TWEEN HOPE & FRUSTRATION. THEY BAIT WITH THE PROMISE OF REWARD-THE HOPE OF PHYSICAL PLEASURE, HAPPINESS, FAME BY ASSOCIATION, POWER-ALL OF WHICH, HOWEVER, PROVES ELUSIVE; YET THIS ONLY MAKES THEIR TARGETS PURSUE THEM THE MORE. COQUETTES SEEM TOTALLY SELF-SUFFICIENT: THEY DO NOT NEED U, THEY SEEM 2 SAY, & THEIR NARCISSISM PROVES DEVILISHLY ATTRACTIVE. U WANT 2 CONQUER THEM BUT THEY HOLD THE CARDS. THE STRATEGY OF THE COQUETTE IS NEVER 2 OFFER TOTAL SATISFACTION. IMITATE THE ALTERNATING HEAT & COOLNESS OF THE COQUETTE & U WILL KEEP THE SEDUCED @ U`R HEELS.
SYMBOL: THE SHADOW.
IT CANNOT B GRASPED. CHASE U`R SHADOW & IT WILL FLEE; TURN U`R BACK ON IT & IT WILL FOLLOW U. IT IS ALSO A PERSON`S DARK SIDE, THE THING THAT MAKES THEM MYSTERIOUS. AFTER THEY HAVE GIVEN US PLEASURE, THE SHADOW OF THEIR WITHDRAWAL MAKES US YEARN 4 THEIR RETURN, MUCH AS CLOUDS MAKE US YEARN 4 THE SUN.
7. THE CHARMER
CHARM IS SEDUCTION WITHOUT SEX. CHARMERS R CONSUMMATE MANIPULATORS,
MASKING THEIR CLEVERNESS BY CREATING A MOOD OF PLEASURE & COMFORT. THEIR METHOD IS SIMPLE: THEY DEFLECT ATTENTION FROM THEMSELVES & FOCUS IT ON THEIR TARGET. THEY UNDERSTAND U`R SPIRIT, FEEL U`R PAIN, ADAPT 2 U`R MOODS. IN THE PRESENCE OF A CHARMER U FEEL BETTER ABOUT U`R SELF. CHARMERS DO NOT ARGUE OR FIGHT, COMPLAIN, OR PESTER-WHAT COULD B MORE SEDUCTIVE? BY DREAMING U IN WITH THEIR INDULGENCE THEY MAKE U DEPENDENT ON THEM, & THEIR POWER GROWS. LEARN 2 CAST THE CHARMER`S SPELL BY AIMING @ PEOPLE`S PRIMARY WEAKNESSES: VANITY & SELF-ESTEEM.
SYMBOL: THE MIRROR.
U`R SPIRIT HOLDS A MIRROR UP 2 OTHERS. WHEN THEY C U THEY C THEMSELVES: THEIR VALUES, THE OR TASTES, EVEN THEIR FLAWS. THEIR LIFELONG LOVE AFFAIR WITH THEIR OWN IMAGE IS COMFORTABLE & HYPNOTIC; SO FEED IT. NO 1 EVER C`S WHAT IS B-HIND THE MIRROR.
8. THE CHARISMATIC
CHARISMA IS A PRESENCE THAT EXCITES US. IT COMES FROM AN INNER QUALITY-SELF-CONFIDENCE, SEXUAL ENERGY, SENSE OF PURPOSE, CONTENTMENT-THAT MOST PEOPLE LACK & WANT. THIS QUALITY RADIATES OUTWARD, PERMEATING THE GESTURES OF CHARISMATICS, MAKING THEM SEEM EXTRAORDINARY & SUPERIOR, & MAKING US IMAGINE THERE IS MORE 2 THEM THAN MEETS THE EYE: THEY R GODS, SAINTS, STARS. CHARISMATICS CAN LEARN 2 HEIGHTEN THEIR CHARISMA WITH A PIERCING GAZE, FIERY ORATORY, AN AIR OF MYSTERY. THEY CAN SEDUCE ON A GRAND SCALE. LEARN 2 CREATE THE CHARISMATIC ILLUSION BY RADIATING INTENSITY WHILE REMAINING DETACHED.
SYMBOL: THE LAMP.
INVISIBLE 2 THE EYE, A CURRENT FLOWING THROUGH A WIRE IN A GLASS VESSEL GENERATES A HEAT THAT TURNS IN 2 CANDESCENCE. ALL WE C IS THE GLOW. IN THE PREVAILING DARKNESS, THE LAMP LIGHTS THE WAY.
9. THE STAR
DAILY LIFE IS HARSH, & MOST OF US CONSTANTLY SEEK ESCAPE FROM IT IN FANTASIES & DREAMS. STARS FEED ON THIS WEAKNESS; STANDING OUT FROM OTHERS THROUGH A DISTINCTIVE & APPEALING STYLE, THEY MAKE US WANT 2 WATCH THEM. @ THE SAME TIME, THEY R VAGUE & ETHEREAL, KEEPING THEIR DISTANCE, & LETTING US IMAGINE MORE THEN IS THERE. THEIR DREAMLIKE QUALITY WORKS ON OUR UNCONSCIOUS; WE R NOT EVEN AWARE HOW MUCH WE IMITATE THEM. LEARN 2 B-COME AN OBJECT OF FASCINATION BY PROJECTING THE GLITTERING BUT ELUSIVE PRESENCE OF THE STAR.
SYMBOL: THE IDOL.
A PIECE OF STONE CARVED IN 2 THE SHAPE OF A GOD, PERHAPS GLITTERING WITH GOLD & JEWELS. THE EYES OF THE WORSHIPPERS FILL THE STONE WITH LIFE, IMAGINING IT 2 HAVE REAL POWERS. ITS SHAPE ALLOWS THEM 2 C WHAT THEY WANT 2 C-A GOD-BUT IT IS ACTUALLY JUST A PIECE OF STONE. THE GOD LIVES IN THEIR IMAGINATIONS.
10. THE ANTI-SEDUCER
SEDUCERS DRAW U IN BY THE FOCUSED, INDIVIDUALIZED ATTENTION THEY PAY 2 U. ANTI-SEDUCERSR THE OPPOSITE: INSECURE, SELF-ADSORBED, & UNABLE 2 GRASP THE PSYCHOLOGY OF ANOTHER PERSON, THEY LITERALLY REPEL. ANTI-SEDUCERS HAVE NO SELF-AWARENESS, & NEVER REALIZE WHEN THEY R PESTERING, IMPOSING, TALKING 2 MUCH. THEY LACK THE SUBTLETY 2 CREATE THE PROMISE OF PLEASURE THAT SEDUCTION REQUIRES. ROOT OUT ANTI-SEDUCTIVE QUALITIES IN U`R SELF, & RECOGNIZE THEM IN OTHERS-THERE IS NO PLEASURE OR PROFIT IN DEALING WITH THE ANTI-SEDUCER.
SYMBOL: THE CRAB.
IN A HARSH WORLD, THE CRAB SURVIVES BY ITS HARDENED SHELL, BY THE THREAT OF ITS PINCERS, & BY BURROWING IN 2 THE SAND. NO 1 DARES GET 2 CLOSE. BUT THE CRAB CANNOT SURPRISE ITS ENEMY & HAS LITTLE MOBILITY. ITS DEFENSIVE STRENGTH IS IT SUPREME LIMITATION.
THE PEOPLE AROUND U R ALL POTENTIAL VICTIMS OF A SEDUCTION, BUT 1ST U MUST KNOW WHAT TYPE OF VICTIM U R DEALING WITH. VICTIMS R CATEGORIZED BY WHAT THEY FEEL THEY R MISSING IN LIFE-ADVENTURE, ATTENTION, ROMANCE, A NAUGHTY EXPERIENCE, MENTAL OR PHYSICAL STIMULATION, ETC. ONCE U IDENTIFY THEIR TYPE, U HAVE THE NECESSARY INGREDIENTS 4 A SEDUCTION: U WILL B THE 1 2 GIVE THEM WHAT THEY LACK & CANNOT GET ON THEIR OWN. IN STUDYING POTENTIAL VICTIMS. LEARN 2 C THE REALITY B-HIND THE APPEARANCE. A TIMID PERSON MAY YEARN 2 PLAY THE STAR; A PRUDE MAY LONG 4 A TRANSGRESSIVE THRILL. NEVER TRY 2 SEDUCE U`R OWN TYPE...BUT HEY NEVER KNOW!!!
THERE U HAVE IT FOLKS. AFTER READING ALL THAT I`M SURE SOME OF U HATE ME & SOME OF U LOVE ME 4 IT. BUT I`M SURE U KNOW SOME 1 IF NOT U`R SELF THAT @ LEST FIT 1 OF THESE TYPES. AN AS IT IS PEOPLE KNOWING 1`S SELF IS THE KEY. BCUZ IF WE KNOW NOT OF OURSELVES WE TRULY DO NOT KNOW ANYTHING & R DOOMED 2 REPEAT THEM AGAIN & AGAIN & AGAIN & AGAIN UNTIL WE DO. BUT AS LIFE IS IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW OLD WE R THEIR IS ALWAYS ROOM 4 GROWTH & BETTERING 1`S SELF. 4 WHEN THEY DO THAT THEY BETTER EVERYTHING AROUND THEM. BUT THE ? STILL REMAINS WHICH TYPE R U???
AN 4 ALL THE PEOPLE THAT HAVE TAKEN THE TIME 2 READ MY WHOLE PROFILE & THE FRIENDS I HAVE MADE IN THE TARVELS OF MY LIFE THAT R IN SEARCH OF THE TRUTH WITHIN THEMSELVES AS WELL AS 4 OTHERS. THANK U!!! U`R LIFE & TIME HAVE NOT GONE IN VAIN. 4 I AM TRULY BLESSED BCUZ OF U.
AN EXTRA SPECIAL THANKS 2 THE TURE BLUE MUSITION & HIP-HOP FAN. U KNOW WHO THEY R...I C 1 IN THE MIRROR EVERY DAY!!! UNDERGROUND MUSIC IS WERE IT`S @. BCUZ THAT`S WERE IT ALL STARTED. AN IS THE HOME 4 EVERY ARTIETS OUT THERE 2 COME BACK 2. WELCOME HOME...WE NEVER 4-GOT U EVEN WHEN U DID.
LIFE DOESN`T HAVE ANY HEROES, JUST SURVIVORS TWISTED 2-GETHER & TORN A PART BY B-TRAYAL, ANGER, PAIN, HATRED, & LOVE - THE VERY STUFF THAT LIFE IS MADE OF.
I DIDN'T KNOW HOW I WAS GOING 2 END MY PROFILE (YET IT NEVER REALLY ENDS). YET AS I SAID EARLIER IN MY PROFILE I'M ALWAYS LEARNIG SOMETHING NEW. AN SINCE BEING ON HERE SINCE 2005 TAKEN A BRAKE (WORK) & NOW I'M BACK. I HAVE READ A LLLOOOTTT OF PROFILES!!! SOME SAYING A LOT OF SOMETHING & SOME SAYING NOTHING @ ALL BUT...THIS MEMBER HASN'T PUT ANYTHING IN THERE PERSONAL MESSAGE AREA...YET!!! I CAN ONLY HOPE THEY DO. AN I UNDERSTAND THAT THEY CAN B NEW PROFILES &/OR B.S. PROFILES. AN WE ALL KNOW WHAT THEY R & WHAT THERE ABOUT...INTERNET SEX & THE PROMIS OF SEX WITH THE LADY &/OR MAN OF U'R DREAMS. I HATE THOSE!!! SUCH A WASTE OF TIME. OK, OK, OK!!! NOW THAT WE'RE ON THE SAME PAGE HERE. AN LIKE I SAID B 4. I'M ALWAYS LEARNIG SOMETHING NEW. AN WHAT I'VE COME 2 FIND OUT FROM ALL U'R PROFILES IS THAT U LADYS LOVE 2 LAUGH. AN WHAT A MAN THAT CAN DO JUST THAT...HAVE U LAUGH OUT LOUD. GOOD...BCUZ IT'S A GREAT & WONDERFUL THING 2 HAVE & DO. SO HERE IS SOMETHING THAT IS FUNNY AS ALL HELL. AS WELL AS TELLS THE TRUTH B-TWEEN FEMALES & MALES.
The Guys' Rules
At last a guy has taken the time to write this all down.
Finally, the guys' side of the story.
(I must admit, it's good.)
We always hear " The Rules "
From the female side.
Now here are the rules from the male side.
These are our rules!
Please note.. these are all numbered "1"
ON PURPOSE!
1. Men are NOT mind readers.
1. Learn to work the toilet seat
You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
1. Sunday sports. It's like the full moon
or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.
1. Shopping is NOT a sport.
And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem.
See a doctor.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.
1. If you won't dress like the Victoria 's Secret girls, don't Expect us to act like soap opera guys.
1. If you think you're fat, You probably are.
Don't ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.......
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
(Conveniently forgotten fact: Christopher Columbus was trying to get to India!)
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
1. If it itches, it will be scratched.
We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really .
1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as SEX, CARS, the shotgun formation,
or BASKETBALL.
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes
1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!
1. Thank you for reading this.
Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;
But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping.
9 WORDS WOMEN USE.
(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.
(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usua lly end in fine.
(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!
(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)
(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' ... that will bring on a 'whatever').
(8) Whatever: Is a women's way of saying SCREW YOU!
(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.
Because He's Black!!!
An older white guy asked his older black friend, 'Are you voting for Barack Obama just because he's black'?
So the older black guy fires back and says, 'Are you not voting for him because he's black?
Why can't I vote for him just cause he's black?
Hell, in this country men are pulled over everyday just cause they're black, passed over for promotions just cause they're black, considered to be criminals just cause they're black, but you don't seem to have a problem with that.
This country was built with the sweat and whip off the slaves' back, and now a descendent of those same slaves has a chance to lead the same country where we weren't even considered to be people. A country where we weren't allowed to be educated, drink from the same water fountains, eat in the same restaurants, or even vote, so you're darn right I'm going to vote for him!!!
But not just because he's black.
But because he is hope, he is change, and he now allows me to understand when my grandson says he wants to be president when he grows up, it is not a fairy tale but a short term goal. Now he sees, understand and knows that he can achieve, withstand, and do anything just because he's black!!!
NOW PLEASE LET ME MAKE SOMETHING CLEAR HERE. WHAT U'R ABOUT 2 READ NEXT IS NOT MY WORDS. YET THE WORDS OF OVER 1,000 LADYS NO MORE, NO LESS JUST LIKE U'R SELVES THAT I HAVE TALKED 2 & RESEARCHED IN THE SPAND OF 3 YEARS ACROSS THIS GREAT U.S. OF A. OF OURS ABOUT WHAT THEIR FANTASISES R (SEX).
Top 10 Female Sex Fantasies.
Men tend to think that woman do not have sexual fantasies. Even if they did it would involve long walks on the beach, flowers and slow loving sex. While woman like this, they also have just as wild sexual fantasies as men do. So next time you're thinking sexual thoughts, feel free to share them with your partner... Here are the top 10 female sex fantasies as researched by me. Thank u & enjoy. ():-)
#10: Strangers in the night.
Many women relish the idea of meeting up with a mystery man and going to some no-name motel for a wild night of uninhibited sex. So yes guys, bars can and do work!!!
#9: Group Sex.
Group sex was a popular one among the ladies. "The freedom of being nude in front of a bunch of people who are equally exposed, allowing different men and women to touch and penetrate your body simultaneously is incredibly erotic.
#8: Who's your daddy???
If there's one thing that women are dying to do, it's dominate a man like never before. The creative ideas that flowed from this topic were quite interesting, to say the least. They included: spanking him ordering him to perform certain sexual acts making him beg for what he wants having him suck on their stiletto heels or some other phallic object.
#7: Put her on display.
In today's world of confident women, I was not surprised to learn that many of them fantasize about having an audience whilst engaging in sexual acts with a partner. They say that the idea of knowing that others are getting excited by their "performance" provides them with a feeling of empowerment. Video camera anyone?
#6: Be her teacher.
Although most women agreed that they fantasize about having a master, their role in the scenario differed. Whereas some women said that they would surrender to their master's demands, others opposed the idea and said that they would resist and disobey his commands.
#5: Three's company.
Ah yes, the Holy Grail. One guy and 2 woman. Virtually every woman wants or will share her body with another woman. "The idea of touching another soft, hairless body and softly sucking her tongue, amongst other things, seems very erotic," said Sara. Unfortunately for many of you. Most women preferred their man to just watch and not participate.
#4: Leave a good tip.
Keeping in mind that the women interviewed are professionals with commendable careers, some of them fantasized about being strippers, while others took things a step further and imagined being prostitutes. Obviously, the fantasy is romanticized beyond belief because the life of either is not so glamorous that women would opt to have it as a career choice. "In my fantasy, while I'm performing a lap dance for my customer, he hands me a $100 bill and requests that I perform the lap dance... minus his pants," Tina boldly stated. When I asked Amber about her prostitution fantasy, she said, "The gentleman would pick me up in his expensive car and I would ride him in the driver's seat in some dingy back alley. He would pay me my fee and I'd be on my way."
#3: Two men at once.
It seems it's not only men who fantase about 2 others. Woman fantasise about 2 men at once! Some wanted a more gentle erotic scene, while the rare few wanted with double penetration type scenes. One of the most interesting statements regarding two men was having one penetrate her while the other licked her clitoris. It sounds virtually impossible (especially if the guys are not bisexual), but nevertheless intriguing. Other interesting ones included having one guy inside of her from behind while she gave the other one oral sex. Amber has fantasized about two guys performing cunnilingus simultaneously on her or having one guy perform oral sex on her while the other sucked on her breasts. This list goes on for hours, by the way. Another woman made no secret of the fact that she wants to be nasty and do all the taboo things that most women would find degrading. She fantasizes about being penetrated from both the anus and the %#&@$!, having the guys release their loads all over her, and craziest of all; she wants to be blindfolded during it. Her number is (415)-233..."
#2: Strap-on party.
By far, one of the most popular fantasies women have is getting to be the man for one night... literally. They would like to act and dress up like a man -- straight down to the genitals. That's right; I'm referring to a strap-on %#&@$!. One woman actually had the opportunity to fulfill her fantasy and took full advantage of her boyfriend's willingness. "It was absolutely incredible to be able to penetrate a man and feel the empowerment usually associated with being the aggressor." "There's something about having a man in a vulnerable position that is an incredible turn-on." Carol admitted. "The idea of knowing that we're in the position that is usually assumed by men is probably the biggest aphrodisiac of all."
#1: Rape Fantasy!!!
Although a rape sex fantasy sounds somewhat unthinkable, that's exactly what most women call it. They want to play the innocent, naive, unknowing little girl who gets taken advantage of by the devious, predator-like man. Forcibly pushing her against the wall and. "...Pinning my arms above my head with one hand while the other hand has made its way under my skirt and is fondling my %#&@$!," received nods of approval by all the women in the room. Andrea went even further expecting the man to, "Rip off my clothes, force open my legs, penetrate me, and concurrently smear my lipstick all over my face with his forceful kiss." Now guys Remember these are fantasies and does not mean that No means Yes. No still means No!!! But given the right scenario, the rape scene will drive her crazy.
A little black girl
A stranger was seated next to a little black girl on the airplane when
the strang20er turned to her and said, "Let's talk. I've heard that flights
go quicker if you strike up a conversation with your fellow passenger."
The little girl, who had just opened her coloring book, closed it slowly
and said to the stranger , "What would you like to talk about?"
"Oh, I don't know," said the stranger. "Since you are a Negro, do you
think that So-called President Elect Barak Obama is qualified for the
job?" and he smiles."OK", she said. 'That could be an interesting topic.
But let me ask you a question first. A horse, a cow, and a deer all eat
the same stuff - grass -. Yet a deer excretes little pellets, while a cow
turns out a flat patty, and a horse produces clumps of dried grass.
Why do you suppose that is?" The s tranger, visibly surprised by the
little girl's intelligence, thinks about it and says, "Hmmm, I have no idea."
To which the little girl replies, "Do you really feel qualified to discuss
President Barak Obama...when you don't know %#&@$!?"
The Art of Giving Head.
I doubt there is a man alive who does not thoroughly enjoy getting a great blow job! With 90+ years of %#&@$! sucking experience behind me (getting not giving...ha, ha %#&@$!s), I would love to share some of my sexy secrets with you, on the art of giving head. So once again I had some lady friends of mine read this (as most of the stuff on my profile) an after they were done they said post it up on my profile...DONE...Enjoy!!!
Like most sex acts, there are an infinite number of positions you can assume in performing them. With this particular technique, I recommend your man be standing in front of you, facing you, while you kneel or squat on the edge of a low to medium height bed or sofa. If he begins to feel a little weak in the knees as the act progresses, he can simply lean forward against the bed for support.
You should take his hard cumpole very gently into both your hands, placing all ten fingers on the shaft, not touching the head or tip yet. Slowly begin rubbing his skin softly, by moving your hands back and forth in opposite directions, as you would twirl a stick in your hands to start a campfire. Remember, start gently -- no hard squeezing yet!
As you continue these finger-stroking movements, open your mouth wide in order to fully cover the %#&@$!'s head without touching any part of it. When the entire head is inside your mouth, slowly close your lips over it as you start sucking softly. Utilize every area of your mouth -- tongue, cheeks, teeth, and roof -- to make direct %#&@$! contact! Continue this touching/sucking technique for about 10 minutes.
Glide the tip of your tongue back and forth, along the section where his shaft meets the head and forms a v-shape on circumcised %#&@$!es. If your man is uncut, then you should do this tongue action around the ridge of his foreskin, being careful not to lift up the foreskin too much with your mouth. That area is extremely sensitive on uncut cocks. He may also enjoy a bit of nibbling, but be careful not to bite down too hard! The combination of the sucking and licking and nibbling should have him squirming a bit!
Begin twirling and twisting your tongue more firmly along that v-spot, while lowering your hands further down his shaft, continuing to touch him with all your fingers. As you slide the shaft deeper down your throat, lower your hands to tenderly touch and caress his balls. You should also be running your tongue up and down the ridge on the underside of his %#&@$!, where the canal-like tube fills with %#&@$! all along the length of his hardness. You can flick your tongue back and forth across this ridge as you work your way up to the head again.
When you reach the head on one pass, try smacking your lips and making kissing noises, while suctioning up any precum that has leaked out from the top of his rod.
Each time you slide his dick back down into your throat, you should push it just a bit deeper, deeper, deeper, until the tip is pressing against the soft part of the back of your throat. At the point where he is deepest in your mouth, you should be sucking furiously and rapidly, keeping your tongue in constant motion. If his %#&@$! is too long to fully fit down your throat, you may use your fingers on the part of his shaft that is exposed, jerking him off in harmony to your sucking action.
Throughout the entire blow job, enhance his pleasure by continually moaning, groaning, and making humming noises in your mouth and throat, sending hot vibrations up and down his %#&@$!!!! To excite him even further, speak to him now and then. Tell him how much you love to suck him off and say how wonderful his %#&@$! feels in your mouth when it is rock hard and throbbing.
Teasing him orgasmically is another little trick that should drive him into ecstasy. Each time you feel he is nearing ejaculation, release his rod from your mouth for just a second or two -- then resume rapidly by plunging him deep into your throat again.
Here is a little secret I learned, in order not to choke or gag on his fluid when he shoots his load: Just before he explodes, thrust his whole length to the back of your throat, letting the head press firmly into the back of your mouth at the base of your tongue -- his juices will then shoot smoothly down, barely leaving a taste. I find it helpful if he tells me just when he is about to %#&@$!, so I am sure to have him deep-throated at the right moment.
As a hot and sweet finale to the act of giving head, savor a few drops of %#&@$!, letting them lie on your tongue and dribble out the corner of your mouth. Plant a deep, loving kiss on his lips, letting him get a taste of that which you have just sucked from him! Mmmmm, good to the last drop!!!
